Earlier this year I mentioned that this was going to be my year of power. And it has been so far. It's been a pretty amazing year...in kind of an odd way. I've experienced a lot of abrupt and unforeseen changes in my life. Some were completely unexpected. Others were more like, "Well, I knthat had to change but I just didn't know how to get out of that rut."
Here's another change:
I decided to no longer be a victim as a usable doormat to people anymore. And I decided to stand up in every situation I felt was wrong or wasn't working for me. Of course, this makes me a lonely person with very few people in my life but that only means all the loser deadbeats are now gone. When I'm ready, I'll have to start lining myself up with some awesome people. Right now I'm on a mission to do bigger and better things business-wise.
I also decided to lose weight. Which I have. (And I'm still losing the weight but I'm about halfway there.)
I decided to stop drinking altogether. I'm not sure if this will be a permanent change. I'm not discounting the possibility of an odd drink here or there for special occasions. But for now, I stopped drinking. I didn't drink at all during Thanksgiving and likely I won't be drinking for Christmas or New Years either.
So...why this latest conquest of change?
This year has given me a couple of "closures" on some lingering issues that are finally over.
A big issue of closure for me was how I was running my business with a specific marketing strategy that I abruptly decided I'm no longer going to be doing anymore effective immediately.
Another issue was the types of products I've been marketing. Just like with the marketing strategy, seemingly overnight I just abruptly closed the door on that too.
With that said, I have this feeling of great strength now that I finally closed a chapter in my book of life and I'm starting to begin to write a new one this week. When something comes to completion, it only opens up a new road with new exciting beginnings because the old is flushed away. Maybe this is what you're experiencing right now. At least I hope so. Otherwise maybe you're feeling stuck or perhaps on the wrong road in life. And that is always a sucky place to be.
So, how to do you start to gain your power back? How do you take the bull by the horns in your own life and guide your own path? You just start doing it, that's how. But you first need a direction otherwise the bull you have by the horns won't know where to go on your life's path.
I'll be the first to tell you the truth and that is life really IS stacked against you. It only gets worse as we succumb to constant distractions, "fake news," celebrity bullshit, political scandal, the latest iPhone release, game apps, the latest shiny penny...and then we wonder why the hell life is going so fast without us accomplishing much. If anything we are actually losing a grip, losing control, and losing at life.
Last month my attorney asked my "opinion" when really he was just broaching a conversation. He asked why I think (at his age) that life is going by so fast? He said it seemed like only yesterday when we were celebrating the New Year and now it's almost Christmas. In a blink of an eye. Just like that.
I told him that I thought it was much like driving on auto-pilot. We do the same things each day, especially the older we get. We are chained to a monotonous schedule. Same thing every day. Same thing every week. Like the movie Groundhog Day. Months roll over. Then we're back at Christmas and thinking WTF?! Where did the time go?
But next year will be different, right? We'll buckle down on those Resolutions and we'll make something happen in the next New Year. Right?
That's probably what you said on January 1st of this year, too. Except today is November 28th and not much has happened with those New Year's Resolutions yet, has it?
In order to get what you want, you have to start pounding the iron with force, tenacity, and great will to succeed. Get off your ass and start working some kind of actionable business plan already.
What the hell are you waiting for?
And if you don't have any kind of business plan in mind, I have a kick-ass idea for you to get out of that rut, out of that life of being broke all the time, and out of that cesspool of frustration and desperation that you've been swirling in.
CLICK HERE and check it out right now!
Remember, nothing changes by itself. There is no ship that just comes sailing in for you. You have to swim out to the damn ship.
Or better yet, build one from scratch.
CLICK HERE NOW! This is something AMAZING that you DON'T want to miss out on.
See you at the top!
Your mentor,
Monica Main
P.S. I'm going to be doing an incredible power-packed training on a brand-new business that you could make a fortune with. CLICK HERE to enroll in the training now. You won't have to pay a penny for it and it'll likely completely change your life. CLICK HERE to jump on board with the training right now!
Earlier this year I mentioned that this was going to be my year of power. And it has been so far. It's been a pretty amazing year...in kind of an odd way. I've experienced a lot of abrupt and unforeseen changes in my life. Some were completely unexpected. Others were more like, "Well, I knew that had to change but I just didn't know how to get out of that rut."
Here's another change:
I decided to no longer be a victim as a usable doormat to people anymore. And I decided to stand up in every situation I felt was wrong or wasn't working for me. Of course, this makes me a lonely person with very few people in my life but that only means all the loser deadbeats are now gone. When I'm ready, I'll have to start lining myself up with some awesome people. Right now I'm on a mission to do bigger and better things business-wise.
I also decided to lose weight. Which I have. (And I'm still losing the weight but I'm about halfway there.)
I decided to stop drinking altogether. I'm not sure if this will be a permanent change. I'm not discounting the possibility of an odd drink here or there for special occasions. But for now, I stopped drinking. I didn't drink at all during Thanksgiving and likely I won't be drinking for Christmas or New Years either.
So...why this latest conquest of change?
This year has given me a couple of "closures" on some lingering issues that are finally over.
A big issue of closure for me was how I was running my business with a specific marketing strategy that I abruptly decided I'm no longer going to be doing anymore effective immediately.
Another issue was the types of products I've been marketing. Just like with the marketing strategy, seemingly overnight I just abruptly closed the door on that too.
With that said, I have this feeling of great strength now that I finally closed a chapter in my book of life and I'm starting to begin to write a new one this week. When something comes to completion, it only opens up a new road with new exciting beginnings because the old is flushed away. Maybe this is what you're experiencing right now. At least I hope so. Otherwise maybe you're feeling stuck or perhaps on the wrong road in life. And that is always a sucky place to be.
So, how to do you start to gain your power back? How do you take the bull by the horns in your own life and guide your own path? You just start doing it, that's how. But you first need a direction otherwise the bull you have by the horns won't know where to go on your life's path.
I'll be the first to tell you the truth and that is life really IS stacked against you. It only gets worse as we succumb to constant distractions, "fake news," celebrity bullshit, political scandal, the latest iPhone release, game apps, the latest shiny penny...and then we wonder why the hell life is going so fast without us accomplishing much. If anything we are actually losing a grip, losing control, and losing at life.
Last month my attorney asked my "opinion" when really he was just broaching a conversation. He asked why I think (at his age) that life is going by so fast? He said it seemed like only yesterday when we were celebrating the New Year and now it's almost Christmas. In a blink of an eye. Just like that.
I told him that I thought it was much like driving on auto-pilot. We do the same things each day, especially the older we get. We are chained to a monotonous schedule. Same thing every day. Same thing every week. Like the movie Groundhog Day. Months roll over. Then we're back at Christmas and thinking WTF?! Where did the time go?
But next year will be different, right? We'll buckle down on those Resolutions and we'll make something happen in the next New Year. Right?
That's probably what you said on January 1st of this year, too. Except today is November 28th and not much has happened with those New Year's Resolutions yet, has it?
In order to get what you want, you have to start pounding the iron with force, tenacity, and great will to succeed. Get off your ass and start working some kind of actionable business plan already.
What the hell are you waiting for?
And if you don't have any kind of business plan in mind, I have a kick-ass idea for you to get out of that rut, out of that life of being broke all the time, and out of that cesspool of frustration and desperation that you've been swirling in.
CLICK HERE and check it out right now!
Remember, nothing changes by itself. There is no ship that just comes sailing in for you. You have to swim out to the damn ship.
Or better yet, build one from scratch.
CLICK HERE NOW! This is something AMAZING that you DON'T want to miss out on.
See you at the top!
Your mentor,
Monica Main
P.S. I'm going to be doing an incredible power-packed training on a brand-new business that you could make a fortune with. CLICK HERE to enroll in the training now. You won't have to pay a penny for it and it'll likely completely change your life. CLICK HERE to jump on board with the training right now!
